BDSM Slave Rules

BDSM has several facets that might interest you and your partner. One of them is the Master/slave relationship.

M/s requires one partner to dominate the affair of the other party but on a consensual ground.

If you love being owned and allowing your lover to take the reins, you might want to know more about this relationship, plus some BDSM slave rules to remember.

What Is a Master/Slave Relationship?

See this relationship as owning a property and taking care of it. In a Master/slave dynamic, you and your partner agree to have one person relinquish their authority to the other and allow them to dictate their lifestyle, especially in bed.

As a slave, you serve and obey your master while your master owns and takes care of your needs and safety. This is the basis of any slave training, whether you’re a male or female slave.

Evidently, you can only explore these Master/slave dynamics if you trust and respect your partner.

You should also set boundaries and limits and have an extensive conversation with your lover before starting an M/s relationship. Oftentimes, you need to put your Master/slave contract in writing.

BDSM Slave Rules

As your Master’s property, you’re dedicated to following his rules and making him feel in charge. He prepares activities and lifestyle choices that you must always abide by. 

But, even as a submissive, you can choose the rules to agree with or negotiate. These rules vary from couple to couple and from mild to extreme. Some of them may include:

• You must be naked at all times except your Master says otherwise
• You must follow any outdoor or house rules set by your Dominant
• You will seek the Master’s permission before doing anything
• If you’re a female slave, you must perform cock worship on your Master
• Always ask your Master how you can serve them, saying something like, “would it please you to do X or Y, Master?” 
• You’re not allowed to look at your Master’s face directly unless he asks you to
• You only speak when you’re told to, so request permission before speaking
• You must always be in a kneeling position with your leg slightly apart while in front of your Master
• You must thank your Master for every punishment you receive
• You will wear any adornment and accept any toy your Master gifts you (not only sex toys)
• You will address your Master by the title they prefer
• If your Master has visitors, you will receive them at the door with whatever outfit your Master orders you to wear
• You must serve the Master’s visitors as they command
• You must be ready to offer sexual service whenever your Master needs it or if he orders you to satisfy his guests
• Your body must always be clean and ready for your Master’s touch
• You must seek explicit permission before you orgasm
• You should never pleasure or play with yourself unless your Master permits you
• You should be clean, groomed, shaved, and perfumed at all times
• Whenever you disobey your Master, you must beg for your punishment and accept it with appreciation
• You are not allowed to sleep with your Master unless they want you to

Final Thoughts

These are a few basic BDSM slave rules in a Master/slave relationship. As stated earlier, they can be mild (like addressing your partner as “Master”) or extreme (like having sex with their guests).

There’s a wealth of variations to these rules, as with any fetish or BDSM rules. It all depends on what you enjoy and what you’re willing to endure. So, talk them over with your partner and agree on what you both want.

The idea is to enter this contract with a Dominant who will respect you and your needs. It would help to write your BDSM slave rules to ensure you carry out your service perfectly.

Good luck on your D/s relationship, and stay stimulated!