You and your partner. Sitting in the tree. K-I-S-S-I-N-G!
Well, with a strap-on, you can do more than kiss and have vanilla lesbian sex. You can give each other some mouthwatering orgasms, going from blowjobs to vaginal and anal penetration.
Strap-ons open a world of fun possibilities for girl-on-girl action, but the flood of options can be overwhelming.
My job here today is to simplify the process so you can choose the best strap on for you and your partner. And there’s more info included to make the experience whole.
Let’s get to it!
It’s a sex toy that comprises a harness and a dildo. Since penetration can be as stimulating to lesbians as to straight women, every lesbian needs at least one strap-on in her arsenal.
The harness stays on your body while holding the dildo, perfectly overriding the need to have a guy involved. You and your partner can explore each other’s bodies as you enjoy penetrative sex.
Strap-ons come in different styles, each with its pros and cons. Later, we’ll look at how strap-ons work and how to use them.
For now, let’s dissect the best strap-on models for women who have sex with women:
Get your groove on with this wearable sex toy as you slide the 8.3” dildo inside your companion. It’s great for an amateur lesbian, thanks to the slim tip that makes it comfortable even if 8 inches is a bit much for you.
Experts are likely to enjoy it, too. The only downside is its slim design, which can be unsatisfactory if you want some beefy girth.
The dildo doesn’t have balls, and this can be a pro or a con. It’s nice because, unlike most alternatives, you can insert the entire length into her mouth, pussy, and ass.
It’s a con if you’re looking for something perfectly realistic. Don’t get me wrong; the body is stretchy and veiny. But without testes, some gals find it weird.
Greatly enough, you can buy any dildos to use with the adjustable harness. Its many rings accommodate different sizes.
With one motor in the shaft and another at the base, the Me2 Rumbler Strap-On is as rad as it gets. It stimulates the giver and receiver simultaneously, with separate controls.
The idea is to achieve rumbling orgasms with this thing, and it should deliver on that promise. The motors make sure you’re vibrating your way to Pleasure Island.
The vibrations can be mild or powerful and with the reliable harness, you can enjoy hands-free sex at will. The color is beautiful and the build is sturdy, so you can relish your partner in style for a long time.
The dildo is 6.5” long and 1.5” wide, so we recommend it for amateurs and pros alike.
LEEWEDENG came through with this strap-on kit featuring a cute little jelly dildo. The prosthetic penis comes in a cool blue or black color, and the bumpy veins and smooth textures make it lifelike.
It’s both stable and flexible – it stays steadily erect but will slightly bend to hit the right spots.
The dildo is 7.87”, which means it may be too much for some beginners. But if you’re experienced or in for a challenge, there’s nothing to fear.
The harness is well-cushioned so you’re comfy throughout your girl-on-girl session. It has 3-sized rings that support different dildo sizes, as long as they have suction cups.
First, its silicone material is premium and skin-safe; i.e., you can enjoy your sessions without any worries.
The dildo is 7.6” long but only 5.7” is insertable. That should be enough if you’re just starting. Experienced lesbians may prefer something bigger and longer; that’s why the harness is usable with other dildos.
You can adjust it to a maximum of 60 inches. My girls on the slim or heavy side should enjoy it.
Of course, you can also employ the dildo without the harness – useful when it’s time for hands-on action. The suction works great for sticking to the shower wall or floor, so use it for solo play or get turned on by watching your girl ride it.
All in all, buyers report that there’s an amazing feel to this lesbian strap.
As a breath of fresh air, this strapless lesbian strapon comes with a vibrating dildo but without a harness. The rabbit vibrator translates to added fun for your clit, bringing you more pleasure than a normal vibe.
Speeds and patterns aplenty, with 12 and 8 options respectively. This opens a world of combinations to experiment and explore each other’s bodies until you reach climactic ecstasy.
It has a case reminiscent of AirPods. Okay, the size is obviously not the same. But you can charge the vibe wherever you go. It’s nicely designed and discreet. You can even lock it – no looky-loo can rain on your parade now.
With a name like Happy Rabbit, you just know any lesbian couple would be happy with this purchase. It’s not the cheapest on the list but it packs lots of fun for you and your babygirl.
For one, I can’t get enough of its sexy hue. This luxury strap-on set has a rabbit vibe, meaning you can enjoy both vaginal and clitoral stimulation. Of course, you can swap it with a dildo or another rabbit.
It adds a wealth of vibrating options to the usual package, leading to potentially stronger orgasms. You have 15 modes to choose from – yeah, this thing won’t get boring anytime soon.
It comes with three O-rings for varying sizes, plus the harness fits well if your waist is 67 inches or below.
This strap-on will only work for women between 30” and 52” waist sizes. It has an 8.5” hollow dildo that tries to feel like the real thing, with 7.5” insertable.
The strapon dildo is firm and made of phthalate-free PVC, which means it isn’t very successful at being realistic. It can be quite hard for some gay ladies. The base isn’t well-built for the price, but the material is durable.
The hollow build also makes it noisy when you lube it up. But even with the few drawbacks, it’s still a neat buy for lesbian sex.
Similar to the Desire Luxury Strap-On, this Strap U production uses a strapless design. But unlike its counterpart, it uses 3 LR44 batteries. Kinda old school, but I’ll allow it since you have 6 batteries included.
The insertable length is just 4”, making it the most beginner-friendly female sex toy on this list. It delivers pleasure to both partners as it vibrates on both ends, giving clitoral sensations to the wearer and G-spot hits to the receiver.
When buying a strap on, you need to pay attention to the harness—the more customizable and adjustable, the better.
You should measure your hips and waist. That way, you can pick a harness that fits snugly.
A padded harness can be more comfortable than its counterpart. The material also matters, so go for soft materials like leather.
The market is filled with all sorts ofdildos, but the ones we recommend are suction cup dildos. You can use the toy with or without a harness – it’s very fun.
The recommended dildo size varies based on your experience. Beginners commonly go for smaller sizes while more experienced gals buy larger toys.
The size may be too big or little for you, so pick one that will stimulate your holes without being painful. Sizes around 5” to 7” will likely be okay for most females, but you can reach 4” to 8” if your taste differs.
Some toys come with perks like vibrations and rotations, in an attempt to keep things interesting. The intensities are varied and the more options you have, the better.
Another element is the material, AKA one of the most important factors. Make sure it’s skin-safe. Options range from silicone, rubber, and metal to glass, wood, and soft PVC.
Silicone is the best choice, but metal and glass can also be great if you like to play with temperature.
Of course, you don’t want to break a leg when choosing a strap-on for lesbian sex.
Prices can be as high as $500, but that’s an extra luxury. Most models go for anywhere between $20 and $100.
Whether you opt for a strap-on kit or buy the harness and dildo separately can also influence the price.
We recommend trying different styles and sizes, but start small. Consider your preferences and look for a good deal.
These lesbian-friendly sex toys have improved over the years, with many features and designs available. Some even have perks to steer up the stimulation.
Pros have different models for different moods, but how exactly do strap-ons work?
Strap-ons have two parts: a dildo and a harness. The former fits into the latter so that it stays on your body hands-free, as you penetrate your partner.
Most models come with a removable or irremovable O-ring. This feature holds the dildo at the base. You can shop for different sizes depending on your dildo collection.
If your strap-on has an undetachable O-ring, you’ll need to buy dildos with bases of that measurement. This is why we recommend getting your hands dirty with different types and sizes of dildos and harnesses.
Some straps use the Vac-U-Lock mechanism. Here, attached dildoes are often penis-like, giving you a more realistic look and feel.
We also have strapless strap-ons. They work like curved double dildos, with one end inside you and the other inside your partner. Some lesbians don’t like this one because your pelvic floor must be powerful to hold the dildo without a harness.
Some strap-ons work with butt plugs, so you can look into that as well.
This is the most common reason lesbians buy a strap-on, as it lets you enjoy penetrative sex without a man.
Pleasure your partner’s vulva and clitoris by using a strap-on to penetrate her. Vary the intensity but don’t put too much work on your hips.
Thrust slowly and gradually. Unless she enjoys deep and rough penetration, you don’t have to penetrate her lesbian pussy with crazy energy.
Of course, she should return the favor and thrust you as well. You two should experiment to find what positions and intensity work best for optimal vagina stimulation.
Similar to thrusting the vagina, you two can experiment with anal penetration and see how it goes. Some strap-ons even work like enema nozzles, making them perfect for lesbian anal sex.
This is what I call double trouble. Some lesbians derive immense pleasure from stimulating their pussy and ass at the same time. Make this happen with two dildos or a double dildo.
If you’re interested in masturbating alongside your GF or SO, you’ll want to get a strap-on each for you and your partner. It can be a fun activity, as watching your lover pleasure herself can be sizzling hot. Even hotter than strapon sex.
You’ve probably been eating each other out for a while. But if you want to try something new, you can take turns giving head. A strap-on makes this possible and though it may seem odd at first, it’s pretty hot.
It would help if you saw the strap-on as an extension of yourself or your partner. Observe her reaction when you suck it on her and touch her in the right places.
In reverse, pay attention to how much you enjoy being blown and how her mouth is sucking the dildo. Adding the stimulation of your erogenous zones will seal the deal.
The pleasure comes from seeing the lesbian strap on as an extension, so it’s totally mental. This mindset will make the session so hot that it’ll feel like an actual blowjob, resulting in physical satisfaction for you two.
Remember to be enthusiastic whether you’re giving or receiving. This is what makes it truly hot for both parties.
Pro-tip: No matter the use(s) you opt for, always lead with a lubricant and talk openly with your partner beforehand. Make sure you’re on the same page regarding your roles, the positions, and if you’ll be experimenting with something new. You can even try lesbian threesome.
If you need to add zing to your sex life, strap-ons can work wonders for lesbians. You have access to a wide range of varieties, but this article has zeroed in on the top 8 models available in the market today.
Grab one based on your taste and goal, and be ready to experience some steamy penetrative sex. Either shop as a couple or get one as a surprise gift.
Enjoy!
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