Ah, pegging. It’s one of those things I’ve been putting off for so long. I finally decided to try it earlier this year and it was one of the most rewarding experiences of my entire life.
But pegging gets a bad rap. If you’re a beginner to the world of pegging, you’ll be glad to know that we’ve packaged everything you need to know in this pegging for beginners guide.
Put simply, pegging is when a female penetrates a male anally. It’s been popular for a while but more and more people seem to be jumping on the bandwagon.
Pegging is an intimate way to show emotional connection, as well as trust between you and your partner. Plus, it works wonders for the prostate gland. This leads to some of the most intense orgasms a man can experience.
The erection will be a lot stronger, with a rock-hard dick and explosive ejaculation.
Pegging still has a sort of stigma to it (like is pegging gay?), but more guys are starting to consider it when they learn what the male g-spot can do for them.
Since the term “pegging” became mainstream in 1998, thanks to the sex education movie Bend Over Boyfriend, the sexual act has become a go-to for many people today.
It’s become even more popular with recent pop culture references in Deadpool, Broad City, and the like.
Pegging porn has also become more common, especially among kinky individuals. From horny singles to curious couples.
In the BDSM community, pegging is loved by submissive males and dominant females. Even dominant males are up for switching sometimes.
Whether you’re looking to be the pegger/top or peggee/bottom, pegging isn’t something to just jump right into. It calls for proper preparation.
Yea, nothing great comes from silence. When it comes to anal sex for men, the trick is to find out what intrigues you and your partner about it. That’s if they’re interested.
Pick somewhere non-sexual – definitely not the bedroom. Then, bring the topic up in the most natural way possible.
Have a lengthy conversation about what you think of the sexual act and what you hope to achieve by trying it. Who knows, it might be the best thing you’ll ever try.
But if your partner isn’t up for it, don’t force them. It’s their choice. You may have to find someone else who’s willing or try to persuade them.
Once you’ve agreed to get down and dirty, the next step is to search online for pegging toys.
You only need a strap-on dildo and some lube, but you can buy toys like bullet vibrators, butt plugs, and textured dildos too.
Make sure you do it together so you can get something that excites both of you.
Lubrication is more important here than even normal sex. The anus doesn’t produce any lubricating fluid, so you can’t skip this step.
You need a generous amount of lube applied to the anus and dildo, to make things nice and easy. Only then are you ready for full-on penetration.
Opt for a water-based lube as others can be rather messy or painful.
Pro-tip: Here’s our in-depth guide on how to properly prepare for pegging.
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It looks nice and does the job, accommodating waistlines from 27” to 69”. So whether you’re skinny or plus-sized, it should be suitable for your pegging needs. It may be too long for tiny girls, though.
Supreme Harness has a metal plate that holds the dildo pretty well, regardless of length and girth. You can even buy an additional vibrating plug to add some vibrations to the fun.
If you’re looking for a realistic and flexible dildo that’ll go well with your harness, look no further than this 7.3” clear dildo from HAOZHI. Out of those inches, you can insert a whole 5.3 inside your man.
It’s perfect to start with because of the medium size. You don’t have to insert everything, however. Start small and lube up generously.
The suction cup is one of the few things buyers complain about, but you don’t need it since you’ll be attaching it to a harness.
With over 115,000 reviews, LubeLife has been offering the best-selling lube on Amazon for as long as I can remember.
The company designed another one specifically for anal play. This is a water-based lube that can work great for any sex toy or body part.
It’s free of toxic materials so you can have fun without any worries. Just apply a little on your toy and anus, and you should enjoy a smooth and easy entry for quite a while.
Mind you, it’s scentless and the flavor walks a thin line between sweet and sour. All in all, it should be a great buy. It’s usable for vaginal and oral sex as well.
As you can tell, things can get really messy when pegging. The rectum passes poop to the anus, so you need to make a habit of cleaning up before a pegging session.
Unlike other sexual acts where you can jump in spontaneously, anal penetration for men calls for early preparation. Use soap and water to wash your anus and use a finger to scoop out whatever may be inside.
Some girls like hairy anuses, so you two should decide whether to shave or not. You can also give your ass an anal douche (a sort of shower for your anus).
Pro-tip: Curious if women like pegging? You may be surprised at the answer.
With the area cleaned and ready for pleasure, your next step is foreplay.
Foreplay makes sex more enjoyable because you’ll already be wet and turned on. Try kissing your man on the lips, neck, and nipple.
Try massaging his body, fondling his balls, and fondling his cock. Try rimming his ass; this one you’ll want to do.
Ass rimming is a great way to ease into pegging.
Bring out your water-based lube and apply it around and inside the anus. Use your tongue and finger to massage the opening, relax the muscles, and make penetration easier.
Start slow but steady, and gradually dial up the intensity. One finger becomes two fingers – you get the idea.
Now that his muscles are relaxed and his anus is generously lubricated, it’s time to go for the jugular.
You may want to start with a smaller butt plug if he’s new or nervous. This is much easier to accommodate in his anus.
Once he’s fine with that, you can service him with a strapon dildo. And if you were wondering, there are lots of pegging positions to try.
A bullet vibrator can kick things up a notch with varying degrees of vibration. (But since this pegging toy is originally made for vaginal penetration, be careful not to lose it inside the anus. That may be a case for the clinic.)
A prostate strap-on is specifically designed to hit the male g-spot so you can also look into that.
The last thing to have at the back of your mind is to be relaxed and comfortable.
Whether you’re the pegger or peggee, always stay calm and enjoy the moment. If not, the experience can be painful, unsavory, and unforgettable in a bad way.
Start slow and dial it up while you both keep calm.
If you were curious about pegging, we hope this ultimate guide has answered most of your questions. We can’t wait to hear from heterosexual couples regarding how it goes.
In the meantime, remember to talk openly about it before you do anything. Relax and be ready to have some butt fun.
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