I’m glad you decided to try pegging for a change. But if you’re new to this sex act, it can be overwhelming or scary for both sides.
How do you not fuck it up? How to prepare for pegging properly? We’ll be answering that question below.
First, you have to know how to bring the topic up. Discussing such a sexual act with your husband or boyfriend can be difficult because it’s a taboo subject and you don’t know how he or she will react to it.
The only way is to overcome your fear and just talk about it. You can’t be too afraid to discuss something with your partner. That’s a red flag that shows you don’t trust or respect each other enough.
As a straight man, subdue the thinking that butt stuff is a feminine desire. Be confident when discussing your thirst for anal sex with your partner.
You can get her a strap-on dildo, bullet vibrator, butt plug, or anal beads as a gift and ask her to peg you with it.
You should also start the pegging session slowly and get her to finger, rim, or give you a prostate massage before telling her you want to be penetrated.
As a female, don’t be afraid to approach your partner and tell him what you want. He may be surprisingly into switching gender roles.
And if he’s not, you can convince him by starting the pegging session with just a finger and working your way up. Let him know how different a prostate orgasm can be and what sexual pleasure he can derive from it.
The anus is also full of nerve endings. Give it some stimulation and he’ll be begging for more. Let’s not forget that prostate stimulation can have a drastic effect on your sexual health and sex life.
If it’s completely off the table for him, respect his decision and either look for someone who wants it or try something else with him.
Pegging can be a delicate topic to talk about, but nothing good will happen if you don’t proceed with an honest discussion.
It’s certainly different from what most couples are used to. So, whether you’ll be the pegger or the receiving partner, you two need to talk about how you feel regarding this new experiment.
It’s best to bring it up anywhere but the bedroom. You may be out having dinner or watching Netflix. Just bring it up in the most natural way possible and explain why you’re interested in trying it.
Whatever it is that appeals to you about pegging, be honest and clear about it. Do you want some butt fun from your woman? Or do you want to dominate your man?
Don’t pressure them, though. They may hesitate at first. Let them read more about anal stimulation for men and decide for themself if they want it or not.
Now you’re on the same page – great!
The next step is cleaning the peggy’s butt region so you can both enjoy a hygienic session.
Shave the area and make sure you don’t try pegging if you feel like pooping.
We all know the anus can be dirty, so pegging isn’t an activity you can do spontaneously. You have to prepare ahead, especially by avoiding any poop-friendly food.
The rectum is where the poop comes from, but small remains may still be in the anus. That’s why you have to do some anal cleansing before any session.
Take a shower, apply some soap, and use your finger to gently dig inside. Some pro-pegging couples prefer to use a condom to avoid any messy situation.
The man should also get into the habit of washing his anus every morning.
You can read this guide on anal hygiene for more details on foods to avoid as well as “anal douching.”
You’re now ready for pegging, but it’s advisable to start with foreplay.
Kissing on the lips and neck, blowjobs, handjobs, ball fondling, and ass rimming. Try anything to get each other as turned on as possible.
This will make the moment more intimate before penetration. And pay attention to your environment – set it up so you’re both comfy and relaxed.
A water-based lubricant is probably the most essential tool when it comes to sex.
Since you’ll be pegging an anus that’s likely virgin or not completely used to it, lubing up is the best you can do to make the penetration less challenging and painful.
And you’ll need plenty of anal lube because the anus cannot lubricate itself.
Other types of lubricants aren’t very good for pegging, by the way. Things quickly get messy.
It’s time for the real deal. After applying a generous amount of lube, you want to kick things off with a lubed finger.
Put it in slowly as he breathes out, and start playing around inside him. This is to relax the muscle around the anus. Repeat it until he’s wet and ready for two fingers.
Try two fingers or go all in with a smooth dildo or prostate strap-on. Remember to keep things slow but steady, especially if this is your first time.
You can also employ a butt plug or smaller anal toys after using the finger and before using the strap-on. The idea is to increase the intensity gradually; don’t rush it.
This is a common pegging position, with the man on all fours looking forward. You can try it on the floor, bed, or couch.
You just have to get on your hands and knees. Relax your anus and voila!—your woman is ready to do some anal stretching.
You can also rest your arms on a pillow and try different variations of doggy.
Beginners also like this one, with your stomach on the ground, bed, or couch. The superb view turns her on even more as you moan under her.
It’s as comfortable as doggy style, if not more comfortable. It’s basically doggy but you’re lying all the way down.
This pegging position requires you to lie on your back, with your legs up in the air and toward your chest. It’s a little more advanced than the first two because beginners have leg cramps doing it.
Your woman can kneel with you on the bed or she can stand in between your legs as you position yourself at the edge of the bed or couch.
She has a little more access to your balls and penis, so she can play with them as she uses her toys to deliver anal stimulation.
Instead of cowgirl, you are the one on top during this pegging session and your woman fires up your hole lying on her back. It’s an intimate position that encourages a lot of eye contact.
She can have you squatting or kneeling over her and can play with your cock and balls. You can also fondle her breasts as she goes in and out until you reach prostate orgasm.
Preparing for pegging is not as hard as it sounds. As this guide has pointed out, you just need to follow a few steps and talk your way through the sexual activity.
Make sure everybody is on board, relaxed, and having fun. Good luck on your journey to pleasure island!
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