How To Give A Good Blowjob? 10 Tips To Be The Master

Ah, blowjobs.

Popsicles have been training you how to give them your whole life. But maybe you didn’t pay enough attention.

Maybe you want to impress your guy with your mouth, but don’t know how to give a good blowjob. Don’t worry; there are worse females and gays than those who suck at giving heads. Those who refuse to learn.

Luckily for you, becoming a master at giving good—no, great—blowjobs isn’t that hard. Let’s get you up to speed with 10 simple tips:

1. Of course, communication is key

As with anything in a relationship (or hookup?), communicating properly is half of the job. If you two can be open and honest about your sexual preferences and passions, it’s nearly impossible to have a bedroom problem. 

When it comes to oral sex, you want to ask your man what he enjoys. Should you bob up and down or play around with the cap?

Asking questions will not only tell you what he prefers but also turn him on. But how you say it is more important than what you say. Talk dirty as you show the different options for him to pick.

You also need to decide where his cum will go—in your mouth, on your face or body, or somewhere else. You get to decide here, but share your decision before you start.

2. Start with some tasty foreplay

It’s time to get him hard before your mouth makes him rock-hard. Foreplay is a great start because sucking a flaccid penis can be demotivating.

Kiss his lips, tongue, neck, stomach, and beltline passionately. Do some dirty talking. Whatever will get him ready to go, do it. 

Nuzzle his ears. Bite his lip and neck. Sensually touch and massage his body. Play with his nipple. Dry hump him. Spank and finger his ass (if he’s into that).

The list goes on and on.

3. Make sure you’re both comfortable

Finding a comfortable position is important for the two of you.

Use pillows and other facilitators to make sure you’re as comfy as he is. Place the pillow under your knees if you’re kneeling while he’s seated on the bed or couch.

Comfiness will ensure you two can go for as long as the blow job session requires.

4. Learn how to tongue-tease

You’re both turned on, so what next?

Don’t jump right into sucking him off. You want to further build anticipation with masterful tongue-teasing.

Lick his dick gently like you’re savoring every taste of a popsicle, and play with his cap using a circular gesture. Keep this up for a minute or two before having his entire penis in your mouth.

You’ll want to tease his frenulum as well; it’s a small fold of tissue under his penis cap. This spot is highly sensitive (remember it for the sucking phase).

5. Suck with passion and style

Here, you begin sucking on his dick with passion and style. Shape your mouth into an “O” and bob up and down until you hit a rhythm that works for him. Not too fast; not too slow.

Despite his preferred spots and motions, you want to keep things interesting by varying the speed and movements of your mouth, tongue, and throat from time to time.

But sticking to the right rhythm will make him explode faster. So, the idea is to use the right rhythm but also keep things a bit varied.

Deep throating may also be included; that depends on your communication and if you’re willing to stretch your throat and not afraid of a gag reflex.

Don’t forget the head and frenulum while sucking; deal with these spots and he’ll explode in a matter of seconds. Back and forth; up and down.

6. Let your hands in on the fun

Not a hand job, but your hands are pretty important if you’re mastering how to give the perfect blowjob.

Grab his dick by making an “O” with your preferred hand. Depending on the size of his member, you can keep the pinky up to look classy while you’re sucking the life out of him.

If you can supplement your mouth with your hand well enough, the sensation can match that of a professional deep throat.

Letting your hands in on the fun also helps you breathe as you can hold and stroke his dick while releasing your mouth from it. He won’t even notice your hand is doing all the work at this point.

7. Stroke his ego, not just his penis

Men love their egos more than anything. If you want to be a master at giving good head, the best thing you can do is stroke his ego by showing optimum enthusiasm.

You want him to feel important and admired – like pleasuring him is all the pleasure you need. So, make sure you enjoy every minute of the foreplay, sucking, and eventual orgasm, as he can tell if you’re into it or not.

Trust me, getting a blowjob from an apathetic giver is a major turnoff. Don’t rush; take your time and use every moment to stroke his ego. This will ensure you’re both having fun.

8. The wetter, the better

Sloppy BJs are the best because the wetter, the better, and the earlier he’ll reach orgasm.

You can spit on his pole to make it even wetter. And sometimes your mouth can refuse to salivate. Don’t fret; just make sure you have a cup of water nearby.

Take a sip and your dry mouth is ready to wet his dick again. Take as many sips as possible, or you can opt for some flavored lube.

9. Perform lower-body exploration

Giving a good blow job isn’t an exclusive party for the penis. You want to explore his lower body in its entirety as you suck on his member. 

But you want to discuss this beforehand. Some people like their buttholes licked; others don’t. The case is similar for ball-sucking; though, more guys are down to clown when it comes to the precious ballsack.

The taint is another spot you want to play with (experts call it the perineum). 

The ideal formula is to start on his balls and cap, move to his shaft and taint, and finally end on his asshole.

Depending on his preference, you may want to use some teeth on his dick as well. Don’t bite hard, though.

10. Try to give a blowjob in a car

Road head is one of the greatest human inventions. The danger heightens the fun for everyone involved but please be careful. Giving head while he’s driving can feel amazing, but it has led to many accidents and arrests.

The idea is to give an amazing blowjob while the car is parked or moving slowly. Start by teasing him, then rub and undo his pants. It’s time to stroke and take him in your mouth as you move your mouth as well as your head.

If the car is moving and he’s reaching orgasm, you want to slow down or pause so things don’t get ugly.

Try deep-throating if you want to kick things up a notch.

Final Thoughts

Are you ready to show your guy you did your homework?

Go down on him tonight while practicing what we’ve preached in this cute ultimate article about how to give a good blowjob, and he’ll be amazed at how far he’s cum.

Don’t just practice these tips at home either. Try them in the car, at a park, in a public restroom, up against a wall in an alley, in the back row of the movie theater, and the library (I quietly like this one).

Fellatio for the win!