Hate it or love it. Pegging is one of the latest bedroom trends to spice up your sex life.
Whether you’re thinking about it for your man or you’re a man looking for some butt fun, pegging is a glorious thing to try.
But before you jump the gun, let’s take a look at what it is and how common is pegging in today’s society.
Pegging is a sexual activity where a woman penetrates the anus of a heterosexual male using a strap-on dildo (or butt plug, or any penis-shaped object). It’s like anal sex for straight men and no, it doesn’t make you gay.
This act breaks gender norms and makes some men feel uncomfortable. But if you’re secure about your sexuality and only looking for new ways to explore your body, it doesn’t hurt to give it a try.
If you’re on the receiving end of this act, you’re the “peggee.” A pegger is a woman who penetrates her man.
Sexual acts that are socially considered “taboo” have always been sexier than the norms. And pegging is no different.
The term comes from the 1998 movie “Bend Over Boyfriend,” which is a sex education video series that’s exactly what it sounds like. This made the act and term more mainstream and couples were willing to try it.
People used to refer to it as “sodomy” or “buggery.” But since these words describe anal sex in general, we needed a dedicated term.
Pegging came through and became widespread after it won a 2001 contest organized by sex columnist Dan Savage.
Due to the sex toy used, some people still refer to it as “strap-on sex.” But this is more common among bisexuals and gay men.
Pegging is slowly getting more popular among heterosexual couples, married or otherwise.
By flipping the scripts, it gets hotter for both the man and woman as they’re doing things that go against the norm. It’s super erotic and steamy, and partners report enjoying it more than vanilla sex.
As expected, bisexual men love to be penetrated anally, so this doesn’t count as pegging. But as homosexuality got legalized in 2003 and sexual orientation get more diverse, people—regardless of gender or genital—are starting to explore more options for pleasure.
This is why pegging is popular now. People want to have new experiences and experiment until they find something exceptionally stimulating.
For men, pegging can trigger some crazy orgasms due to prostate stimulation, as well as the rectum and anal walls being stimulated.
Prostate stimulation is also great for sexual health as it extends the movement and lifespan of sperm.
You might not know this but everyone has nerve endings in their anus. Now, hitting these receptors through anal penetration can take a man to a whole new level of sexual pleasure.
Women also love giving their men anal stimulation, as it gives them some form of control. Plus, switching gender roles is as hot as it gets.
So, when defining pegging in the standard sense, imagine a straight female penetrating a straight man anally.
Of course, females can also give each other anal pleasure. But we’re talking about the female-on-male action here.
Vanilla sex can quickly get boring and couples have a need to keep things interesting, or else the relationship may fall apart.
Pegging is a novel experience that pushes both the male and female, resulting in a deeper, more trusting relationship than ever before.
We’re not in 2000 anymore where most couples only had missionary sex. People want to explore each other’s bodies and find new ways to orgasm.
Plus, anal play is extremely stimulating and orgasmic for men, thanks to the prostate gland. What’s holding it back from becoming popular?
By the way, don’t forget to grab some lube.
How common is butt play for men? Well, how common are unsatisfied couples trapped in a relationship with boring sexual intercourse? The two go hand-in-hand but the sex act is beyond that.
It breaks gender norms through role reversal, and both parties are more willing to try it these days. We’ve explained what pegging is, how stimulating it is for men and its role in popular culture.
Give it a try today – you never know until you try.
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