Men often ask themselves this question before indulging in this trending sexual act. Pegging can be highly stimulating for men, but do women like pegging?
Well, the short answer is often yes. But it’s a little more complicated than that. Like everything, some love it while others don’t.
We’ll go into further details below.
I asked a woman what her first pegging experience was like and her eyes dazzled with excitement.
She said she never thought about it until she mistakenly stumbled on an interracial porn video. It was a heterosexual ebony man getting anal sex from a white woman.
She was fascinated and curious and wondered if her man would be interested in trying it just for fun. She texted him to come over for a surprise.
When he arrived, she began teasing him in sexy lingerie and he got turned on real fast.
Since she already had dildos lying around in her home, she simply gave him head. And when he was about to cum, she stopped and told him she wanted to sit on his face.
He agreed. Soon, all she could hear were moans as he ate her out while sitting on his face.
She then brought out her lube and told him he wanted to finger his ass. He hesitated at first but eventually said yes. She applied a generous amount of lubricant around and inside his anus, and began to finger him using one finger.
He was moaning louder as she doubled, then tripled her fingers. Seeing him enjoy it, she picked an average-sized dildo from under her bed and gave him the surprise he’s been waiting for. Surprisingly, he enjoyed every bit of the anal play.
They ended up buying different kinds of strap-ons and dildos so they can vary the size and shape. They started having less vanilla sex and even when she didn’t try to fuck him, the guy would ask for anal penetration. He loved it.
They started exploring different pegging positions and moved from the bedroom to the couch. From the kitchen to the balcony.
Now, while she doesn’t recommend trying it before talking about it, the surprise element worked for them. She said the most exciting thing about pegging is switching roles and letting her take charge of the penetration.
A majority of pro-pegging women try it because their partner is into it. This is why communication is important in any relationship.
Most women haven’t given it a thought but once the man opens up that he likes or wants to try it, women are more than willing to penetrate that asshole.
Nothing is sexier than enthusiasm, so be ready to talk about it with your partner. Is he comfortable being penetrated? Does she find it hot and kinky to penetrate her man?
If you’re a man, you can buy a strap-on for your partner as a gift and ask them to peg you.
Now, aside from that, some heterosexual couples are into femdom (or female domination). This is an advanced level of intimacy and can go from mild (men who love to switch roles once in a while) to wild (men who love to be controlled, called all sorts of names, and worship their females).
Women can also be into femdom and prefer submissive men. Some women are so dom that they would spank their man and fuck him roughly. The bigger the dildo, the better.
It helps to communicate sufficiently to decide the roles you two will play during sex. One can be “dom” while the other is “sub.” Or you can both be “switch,” varying who is dominant during any particular session.
It depends on the actual woman but we can look at a few things women love about this sex act.
As said earlier, some women are dominant and want to be in control. Pegging a straight man gives them this control. But they can be more domineering than some men can handle, so please talk openly about how you both feel.
Still, some men want this kind of domination and would do anything to have their woman fuck them in the ass.
Submissive men enjoy being spanked, slapped, choked, and love it when their female makes them cum on their face. All this makes pegging the go-to experience for couples into power play.
Aside from the world of femdom, other pro-pegging women just want to try something new and different. And as long as their man is into it, they will enjoy giving him what he wants.
It’s like having oral sex (i.e., blowjobs). Women don’t get much stimulation from it but they do it for their man.
Moreover, orgasms from pegging are much stronger than normal ones because the male g-spot, rectum, and anus are being stimulated. This makes the prostate orgasm more intense and satisfying.
Prostate stimulation can also boost a man’s sexual health and make him more libidinous.
Some women get turned on by the fact that their man trusts them enough to ask to be pegged. It takes a certain level of trust to ask for it.
The first piece of advice is don’t be afraid to discuss it with your partner. It can be so much fun. Don’t let fear rob you of what can be one of the most satisfying experiences of your life.
And if you don’t feel comfortable discussing this with your partner, sorry to say but you might be in the wrong relationship.
Once you’ve decided to try pegging, the best advice is to get some lube and a suitable sex toy. While his anal walls and prostate gland will most likely love it, they’re not prepared for this yet.
Lubricating his anus will put you on the right path and try fingering him first before slipping that dildo in. You can also opt for ass rimming, which most men like.
You may have to try fingering or rimming him a couple of times before he’s ready for actual penetration. Try butt plugs or anal beads as well; they’re much smaller than strap-on dildos.
As for the man, don’t buy into any stereotypes and think that pegging is gay or unmanly. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to try something new or wanting to be dominated by your female partner. It’s all fun and love.
Sexual orientation doesn’t come into play here. Anal pleasure isn’t exclusive to gay men.
If you’re new to this, don’t forget to start slow and talk about everything. How you’re feeling, if you’re moving too fast or slow, or if you want to continue doing this.
You can also watch some pegging porn together to get you in the mood. The videos may teach you one or two things about the sex act.
Now that you know women like—no, love—this sexual activity. It’s over to you to discuss it with your partner and experiment for a while. Does it trigger sexual pleasure for one or both of you?
Even if, as a female, you’re not getting stimulated, maintaining eye contact with your man while he’s getting rammed can be highly pleasurable.
The power exchange can also be kinky for both parties and further improve your sex life.
Enjoy!
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